Wednesday, May 03, 2006

我—离—婚—了

四天前,心里一直嘟嚷这句话,
仿佛自己轻易的就可以忘情弃爱,
然后公告天下说,我离婚了。

却原来我不能。
一直反反覆覆,在要与不要之间,
不知如何取舍。

朋友从四方八面打电话来关心,
看到自己的部落有网友来声援,
感觉自己就像日本的电车男
听到大家呼喊说:不要请言放弃!
无论什么决定,
不要让生命留任何遗憾。

朋友有的问:怎么了?感觉不振作。
我也只能说不知道。
因为真的无法形容痛的感觉。

朋友又说离婚后,女人会很心痛,
我说我也是很痛,因为孩子我会放给她,
她失去的只是一个她爱的我,
我失去的却是两个我爱的她们。
我当然不想比谁比较受伤害,
反正两个人都不好受。

本来不打算妥协的我,
最终还是软化了。
我答应放老婆回去中国6个月,
去完成她想要完成的人生。

这是我对她的信任,
当然也希望她不要践踏我的信任。
我只希望在未来6个月内,
说长不长,短也非短的时间,
好好用心来灌溉我们的爱,
不要让什么节外再滋长,
不要让任何风波再翻腾。

我不希望有朝一日,
真的会写一篇叫做“我离婚了”的部落。


又:真的很感谢你们的关心。
暂时来说,我已经放宽胸怀,不去想什么,
只能在有限的两个星期好好疼老婆。
希望这短暂的甜蜜,
能更牢固我们之间的感情。

24 Comments:

At 5/03/2006 2:41 am, Blogger 赤兔 said...

也不知道该说什么好!会为你祷告。加油咯!

 
At 5/03/2006 9:19 am, Blogger Unknown said...

感到很无奈。。 也为你伤心。

我想走到离婚这一步,是无可奈何的事。你们有为孩子多想想吗?很多时候,夫妻间有很多争执但往往看在孩子的份上互相迁就,互相忍让。

不知道要说什么,希望一切不会太糟。

 
At 5/03/2006 11:02 am, Blogger G0ndoLi3r said...

erm... 會祝福你的,加油加油~ 別放棄!

 
At 5/03/2006 12:17 pm, Blogger TCA said...

i-will-be-watching-u...hehehehe
6 months is not a long time; u better start planning now.

 
At 5/03/2006 2:41 pm, Blogger cy said...

不要太悲观..
让彼此分开一阵子,
冷静一下,好好想想,规划接下来的人生,
未尝不是件好事。
如果6个月能够换来两人一起的一辈子,
那么是值得的。

祝福你。

 
At 5/03/2006 2:56 pm, Blogger Blur^Sand said...

真的签字离婚了吗?还是暂时分开一段时间而已?
虽然不太懂事情经过。。。怎么说也是你们两公婆之间的事, 只有你们最清楚自己要些什么。。。小妹只能在此默默为虎哥加油!

请虎哥不要轻言放弃!就让这半年时间让彼此好好休息,冷静!如果是真心相爱的!多少个月都不会有问题的!就当大家分开两地工作,为大家的未来努力咯! 虎哥加油! 虎哥加油!

 
At 5/04/2006 12:32 am, Blogger 阿虎 said...

谢谢大家。
可能我的表达能力不够好,
让大家误会了我的意思。

我和老婆还没有走到签字离婚的最后一步,
但是我答应让她回去中国半年,
心里终究是不痛快的。
我好担心这只是暴风雨前的平静。

但无论如何,谢谢你们的打气,
我会收拾心情,
积极的正面自己的感情。

 
At 5/10/2006 12:16 am, Blogger 阿虎 said...

谢谢阿香姐,你的话我会记住的。

让自己心宽,无愧于任何人,对吗?

 
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